Hana Ema Writes

  The journey to conceive is one of the most deeply personal and emotional experiences, shared by couples across the world yet felt in profoundly individual ways. Whether in bustling cities or quiet rural villages, the wait to grow a family is often accompanied by a rollercoaster of emotions—hope, anxiety, frustration, and faith. For many women, the pressure to conceive quickly is intense. In cultures where a woman’s worth is closely tied to motherhood, every passing month can feel like a silent judgment. Whispers from family, uninvited advice from friends, unsolicited prayers at family gatherings and the weight of societal expectations only add to the burden. The question, “When will you have a baby … or another baby?” can be harmless to some, but to those waiting, it cuts deeply, often leaving a scar that’s invisible to the outside world. Men, though less openly, face their own struggles. In societies where masculinity is linked to fertility, men may silently battle feelings ...

Let’s face it—November is a rollercoaster. One moment you’re diving into a turkey leg at Thanksgiving, dodging family debates. The next, you’re playing tug-of-war over the last discounted air fryer on Black Friday. But then comes Giving Tuesday: a breath of fresh air where we trade shopping madness for something much more meaningful. Giving Tuesday is the global day of giving, and let’s be honest, we need it. It’s the holiday season’s antidote to consumer fatigue—a chance to pause, reflect, and spread some joy. Instead of accumulating more stuff, it’s a day to ask, “How can I make a difference?” Why Giving Tuesday? Because Generosity > Buyer’s Remorse We’ve all been there: convincing ourselves this year we’ll only buy essentials, only to end up with a cart full of scented candles and a banana slicer . (Seriously, how did that happen?) Giving Tuesday offers a better way to spend: giving back to causes and communities that truly matter. When you give—whether it’s money, time, or tale...

 If there’s one thing Nigerians know how to do, it’s show up for each other. From “aso ebi” contributions to endless WhatsApp group fundraisers, we’re pros at pooling resources to solve problems. That’s why Giving Tuesday—a global day of giving—is right up our alley. It’s a chance to channel our “we rise by lifting others” energy into something powerful. Think of it as a break from the Black Friday and Cyber Monday madness, where instead of buying things, we focus on giving back. And let’s be real, after navigating November’s traffic and Jollof-fueled family gatherings, a little generosity could be just what the doctor prescribed to help you calm your nerves. Why Giving Tuesday Fits Our Vibe In Nigeria, generosity isn’t just a nice-to-have—it’s part of our DNA. Whether it’s supporting your younger cousin’s school fees, helping a friend “meet up” with rent, or sending provisions to the village, we understand the power of giving. But Giving Tuesday is an opportunity to thin...

 Hey friends, it’s Giving Tuesday—a global day dedicated to giving back. I know what you’re thinking: “Giving? In this economy?!” But hear me out—this isn’t about emptying your wallet. It’s about using whatever you have (money, time, skills) to make someone else’s life a little brighter. As future professionals, doctors and honourable people in society, giving is already part of your DNA. Whether it’s helping a classmate with notes or volunteering for free health screenings, you know the value of serving others. Giving Tuesday is just a chance to take that same energy and apply it beyond your immediate circle. How You Can Give Back—Even on a Student Budget Your Time : Volunteer for a cause you care about, like organizing health outreaches or visiting a children’s ward to cheer up patients. A little time can mean a lot to someone in need. Your Knowledge : Share tips, resources, or even host mini tutorials for younger students struggling with coursework. Knowledge shared is knowledg...

  Meet Lily. She was just like any other high school girl— bright, full of potential, with big dreams. But when she started dating Jake, things slowly began to change. Jake had been struggling with mental health issues for a while, though he kept it hidden. Instead of seeking help, he turned to drugs to numb the pain, and before long, Lily found herself dragged into that same world. At first, it was just something they did to “escape.” They thought they had control over it, keeping everything secret from their parents and friends. But soon, the drugs became more than just an escape—it became the center of their lives. Lily’s grades plummeted, her friendships faded, and her once-bright future began to fall apart. Both she and Jake were drowning in addiction and spiraling deeper into mental health struggles they didn’t know how to talk about. On this World Mental Health Day, we want to share Lily’s story to remind you of something important: it’s okay not to be okay , and it’s ...

  On the outside, Sarah had everything anyone could dream of. With her striking beauty and magnetic charm, she was the epitome of success. As a senior manager at a top firm, she commanded respect and admiration from her colleagues. She was the woman who could do it all—juggling a demanding career with grace, nurturing her two children with love, and always showing up for friends and family. Every morning, she walked into the office with a polished look and a warm smile, and in meetings, she was sharp, composed, and in control. But beneath the surface, Sarah was crumbling. As the pressures at work mounted, so did the weight on her shoulders. Long hours, unrealistic deadlines, and constant expectations to perform at the highest level became her new normal. She was a perfectionist who didn't believe in saying "no" and was always the first to offer help, even when she had nothing left to give. The boundaries between her work and personal life began to blur, and slowly, ...